| March 9, 2006
Greetings
from Mojave Airport! I love Spring, don’t you? The weather has been very
unusual for the past year and we have been experiencing some wonderful
Spring days in February! The birds and flowers are all confused.
We have lost
so many close friends this last year, undoubtedly because we are all growing
older, but some seemed awfully young to us.
Even though
November 14th was my brother’s birthday, I think of him every
day. Lawrence Gale Hellwig was born in 1932 and would have been 73 in 2005.
I miss him in so many ways at different moments during each day, especially
when I open the door to my hangar and see the beautiful 1967 Cessna 182 he
left to me. Whenever I see a white Dodge diesel pickup, or when we plan a
family dinner or barbeque at the hangar, I always think, Uncle Gale would
have enjoyed this. He always cooked for our parties.
I am often
reminded of the story written by Linda Ellis about a man who stood to speak
at a funeral of a friend. He read the dates on the tombstone from beginning
to end. He noted that first came the date of birth, then a dash, and the
date of death. He said what mattered most of all was the dash between those
years, because the dash represented all the time that person spent alive
here on earth. Only those who loved this person really knew what that little
line was worth.
My brother
lived his dash well. He was a diligent worker, dedicated and generous with
his family, even though they didn’t always recognize it, and enjoyed doing
things for other people. He liked to have fun and found a new life when he
received his pilot’s license!
After his
wife passed away, he was so lost and we kept encouraging him to get back to
completing his pilot’s certificate. He was hesitant because he had a medical
history with heart problems. Finally, he took the necessary steps and though
it wasn’t an easy task, he jumped through the hoops presented by the FAA and
passed the treadmill tests to get his medical up to date.
God bless Wen
Painter and Dick Rutan who worked with him until he had the required hours
flying and the ground school knowledge to fly with a FAA Examiner and
receive his Airmen’s Certificate. Fifty years had passed since his first
lesson to the time he received his pilot’s license!
We saw a new
man emerge, always smiling and happy to be alive and fly! Sometimes on the
weekend, he would fly over our house before we were even up! He often told
us that his hangar at Mojave Airport was his refuge, a place of retreat and
solace. What a lucky guy to find such peace!
Sometimes he
would join us on a trip to the movies and I think the last one we saw
together was Space Cowboys with Clint Eastwood. We are often appalled at the
previews and commercials the audience is obliged to watch before the movie
begins. They are full of violence and hate that attack a person’s spirit. My
brother usually refused to attend motion pictures for that reason. I
remember our conversations about being concerned about the things shown on
television and in movie theaters that are disheartening, terrifying and
repulsive, when there are so many magnificent breakthroughs in science and
exciting new developments in aviation right here in our own backyard!
I couldn’t
help but recall when my husband, Al, read a portion of “Our Sacred Honor” by
Dr. William Bennett to me. Bennett quoted Abigail Adams warning her husband,
John Adams, “If we are surrounded by the trivial and the vicious, it is all
too easy to make our peace with it. Human beings can adjust to anything.” We
certainly see that happening today.
Flying may
not be for everyone, but it is so important that you have something that
gives you that special feeling of satisfaction and peace that my brother
had, rather than sitting in front of that TV soaking up the trivial and the
vicious. He wasn’t ready to die, but he was a happy guy and was helping his
neighbors the day he did.
There are
exciting things happening every day at Mojave Airport and California City
Airport; people learning to fly in airplanes, helicopters and gliders,
expanding their own horizons and feeling the thrill of flight.
Until next
week. . . . .”Keep ‘em flying!”
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